Psychology of the new era

In my previous article I described what happens when we allow our yearning for exes prevail. Now it is time to discuss which situations provoke it and how to fight this desire for avoiding new problems. Lets observe most widespread situations. You are drunk. Yes, the situation when a person is drunk and send messages to all exes is an object of ridicule. Such behavior seems so strange that people (sober) laugh at it. But the fact remains: a drunk person regret about his past and present, and try to change it immediately! The reason of it is simple: the alcohol influence on part of the brain which are responsible for self-control and realistic assessment of situation. They work worse and a person do thing which seem reasonable in drunk state. And if a person drinks the alcohol regularly, this parts of the brain are also depressed regularly. So erroneous decisions happen more often even in sober state. If you want to save clear consciousness (and not to return bad relations...

Why some time later we begin to yearn for our partners from the past, although at first we could be be glad that we broke? In first part you will know which are symptoms of yearning for ex-partner. It seems, you finally got rid of him. Or of her. Behind are left scandals, late returning home of your soul mate without warnings and without crisp explanations, numerous attempts (fruitless) to clarify and to improve relationships. It should seem you should cheer, to make a fresh start, to met new people or conversely to pay attention to yourself, if inner incentive ( инсЕнтив) demands it. And really some time everything is going exactly like this. It seems that the sun came out of clouds, the shroud fell from eyes and shackles from legs. One wants to sing and to enjoy the life. But several months passed, or half a year, or year or even several years, and you fell some anxiety. Some time later this anxiety becomes stronger, bigger and begins to whisper: “Yes, he was bet...